When facilitating adult groups on topics related to sexuality and kink, with a focus on practical experimentation and action, we often bring our whole selves to the table. Our experiences, our ability to regulate ourselves, our interest and passion for sexuality and kink topics. When the focus is on fun, experimentation and experience, we often have a curious and eager group in front of us. The adults in front of us also bring their entire history and embodied biography with them. The more they are part of a minority, the more minority stress and often bad experiences, discrimination and distrust they bring with them. When it comes to sexuality, we can assume that there is always at least one person in the group who has experienced sexualised violence. Many people have had experiences in their lives that have the potential to cause trauma. None of our various offerings are trauma therapy, but rather educational offerings.